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HALF-BLOOD TRUTH

Earning Ninth Grade

Family Secrets, Sisterhood, and Brain Training

6 min readOct 9, 2024

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A nostalgic 1980s scene of junior high kids hanging out near the doors of an old brick school building. The kids are dressed in classic 80s fashion, including leg warmers, tennis shoes, hair bows, and braces. They are spread out in small cliques, interacting in different groups, capturing the vibrant youth culture of the 80s.
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High School Hustle: Life Lessons and Truth Bombs

Ninth grade started better than any year before. I had worked over the summer, bought myself some new school clothes, and felt more in control of my life.

It wasn’t the same as being taken care of, but being able to handle things on my own was a big deal.

I stuck with my core group, the ones who kept me steady, and I fought to get my grades where they needed to be so I wouldn’t flunk out.

No fucking way I was getting left behind in junior high.

Mom seemed a little more lucid that year. Maybe the glaucoma diagnosis had her facing reality. She was in and out of doctors’ offices, trying to work small jobs at resale shops, but nothing ever stuck. She’d quit after earning just enough to pay rent to my uncle and buy some cheap Christmas gifts. The heavy-lifting type of parenting wasn’t happening anymore, but she’d still surprise us with some dime-store treasures now and then.

The contradictions were never-ending.

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Lisa Lauro
Lisa Lauro

Written by Lisa Lauro

LL | Special Ed teacher & host of Teacher Diaries. Uncovering hidden truths in education, challenging norms, and piecing together the mystery of my childhood.